The Naked Negotiator

No sense of humor…

My wife and I were watching Who Wants to be A Millionaire while we were in bed.

I turned to her and said, “Do you want to have sex?”

“No!” she answered.

I then said, “Is that your final answer?”

“Yes,” she replied.

Then I said, “I’d like to phone a friend.” That’s the last thing I remember.

The wife in this story gets to have the final say.

In most sales negotiations however, the customer has the final say.

Their threat to “phone a friend (re:competitors)” is always there.

Customers are rarely chained to you by the vows of marriage.

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You are ambling down the street and you spot a dime on the pavement. You bend over, pick it up, just as a $10 bill flies by. Because you concentrated on picking up the dime, someone else grabs and pockets the $10 bill.

The opportunity cost of pocketing the dime is $9.90.

Profitable deal making invariably involves opportunity costs — the costs of not landing an alternative deal.

In deal-making, before you even start negotiating, you need to assure yourself you are talking with the right party. If you want to achieve your Best Possible Agreement (BPA) you must talk to the right people.

Too many deal-makers pursue sub-optimal deals with the wrong party. So, instead of ending up with the Best Possible Agreement (BPA) they end up with a Barely Acceptable Deal (BAD).

In a recent webcast I ran with over 200 C level executives, over 60% in an online poll reported over half of their deals could be classified as Barely Acceptable Deals. If you have a high proportion of BAD deals you need to review your dealmaking process now!

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As negotiations drag out, the practical responses you have to solve a problem run out.

As your options shrink, time pressure increases, you concede more and the deal turns from your Best Possible Agreement (BPA) to at best Barely Acceptable Deal (BAD).

The triangle of doom warns us:

1. We need to spend more time, investigating and strengthening our alternatives.
2. We need to monitor, capture and analyze problems in real time if possible.
3. For large, complex negotiations projects you need a real time reporting and response process. Some times the best deals you make are the ones you walk away from.The more time we invest in a deal, the more committed we become to sealing a deal – regardless of its consequences.

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In our supposedly globalized economy, businesses are advised to charge across borders as if the whole world were one.

But the world isn’t so flat after all. Businesses that don’t take into account specific political, cultural, and economic differences are set up to fail. Redefining Global Strategy, by professor and strategy consultant Pankaj Ghemawat, offers a reality based view of globalization - and practical tools to help your business cross borders profitably.

His book is full of insightful, useful information. I love his tools especially his CAGE distance framework which helps you identify barriers that your global marketing strategy will have to overcome.

Here is a summary of the CAGE Framework.

• Cultural distance
  • different languages
  • different ethnicities
  • different values
• Administrative distance
  • closed economy
  • extent of home bias
  • corruption
• Geographic distance
  • physical distance
  • time zones
  • geographic remoteness
• Economic distance
  • rich and poor differences
  • differences in cost/quality in infrastructure
  • economic size

Ghemawat proves differences do matter when you market outside your homeland. Redefining Global Strategy is a must read for anyone with ambition for profits from the international economy.

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Harry Mills has been selected to join Negotiators International - an international network of expert deal-makers and negotiators.

Founded by Israeli negotiator and author, Daniel Weiser, Negotiators International offers business and government clients access to an international network of top dealmakers based in Israel, the USA, Germany, Canada, China, Germany, Japan, Korea - and now in New Zealand!

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